Wow, it has been a long time since I have updated my Blog. I guess some times I don’t want to think about Multiple Myeloma(MM), and so avoid writing about it, but then on the other hand it is very much part of my life. The thing about MM is that it’s a disease that is very much hidden, it affects your bones, kidneys and immune system. And so, when on treatment, one really does not look too bad. I although I must say, the treatment really gets to me, especially as I have to work in a high stressed and pressured environment.
Since April this year so much has happened. It has been an amazing and challenging year. So many highlights, at the same time looking into next year so many new challenges and changes.
On the health front, I have been on treatment since. I have been on Revlimid for awhile, and did not give the desired result, so have I been back on Valcade and dex, and seems that my levels are under control although not as low as needed. My ‘m’ spike is around the 14 mark, and is very slow to come down. I have really struggled with dex/cortisone, as really affects me quite badly. Dr T has agreed that I can take some time off until end of January, we will then assess the way forward, it does however seem that another SCT is immanent.
On the work front this has been a hectic year, we finally open Menlyn shopping centre on the 24th November, this being the largest mall in africa. Extremely busy time, with lots going on. It really did open well, and was glad to manage a project of the size and scale. Next year will most probably be just as busy, as we plan further developments during the year. I would have loved to have spend more time this year on exercising and keeping fit, I hope to be able to catchup in 2017, learning to prioritize and manage my time better. Although, I must say that the ongoing treatment, has hampered me.
This year was a year of milestones, as Chloe completed her Matric, and plans to study next year. Dominique also doing well with her studies and will be 3rd year next year. So for the Marais family, next year is going to be a new experience, with both girls being at university, Chloe being in the Cape, its going to be new and interesting.
On the Spiritual side, the Lord has done so much in my life, He has taught me so much this year. One of the main things I have realised, is living by Faith. Without faith it is impossible to please God. I also realised that many of my decisions that I made was made out of fear. I read a quote by Nelson Mandela, about letting your life be driven by our hopes and not our fears. We should make decisions, and live our lives out of our hopes and dreams, and trust the Lord for them.
2017 is going to be a big year for me, as I’ll be 50. It has come so quick, I’m grateful for every year that He has given me.
Cycling in Cape Agulhas National Park
Blessings for 2017!
